One question that keep on bothering me is – What is life?
Is it about listening to your heart or doing things according to your mind.
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Is it about giving up on certain things or keep on pursuing them till last.
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Is it about forgetting and moving on or remembering the bad things as lesson.
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Is it about going with the flow or standing steady on your grounds.
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Is it about treasuring fond memories or letting go of the past completely.
To this one day my friend said, life is not about choosing a side but finding a balance.
But isn’t it tough to balance the two sides of the same coin?
I think life is consistency,no matter what be happy in small moments and go on.
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That’s a nice approach. Happiness is actually in those small moments.
Thank you so much Priyanshi for this comment.
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I think life is about being a chameleon. Each stage of life or period has different parts and plays out differently depending on how you handle the day to day.
Sometimes you revise and some days you go with the flow. Some days you are ready to attack and other days, you lean on family and friends.
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Wow. That’s a very nice thought ❤️. Every situation requires a different action.
Thank you so much for going through the post.
But don’t you think sometimes its difficult to understand which action is suitable for which situation.
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Yes, sometimes you just do your best and hope it will work out. Or sometimes your experience tells you which action works for you.
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Agree. Lets take one day at a time.
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At seventy-one and retired, keeping my life in balance is still a challenge! I think it is one of those things that will always require attention and effort! All the best! Cheryl
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Thank you so much for sharing your insight Cheryl.💜
Lets cheers to the life full of challenges of maintaining a balance.
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So well written!❣❣
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Thank you so much for your support 💜
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A good question in the end…😍
I’m searching a answer for this.
On the whole, it was a intriguing post!
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Thank you so much Hemalatha for such kind comment.💜
We both are searching for the sane answer
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Your Welcome!🙂
And yeah, you are right…
I’ll be around this comment section to see people’s opinion about our question…😇
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Hahaha.
Hope we find it soon.
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Balance is actually not as hard as people make it. We let media and our emotions lead us around, pulling us to one side or the other instead of simply applying common sense and a little self-discipline to situations in our lives.
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Thank you for going through the post. Actually our modern life makes even simple things complicated.
Really appreciate you for raising this point.
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Beautiful poem! Maybe, there’s a season for everything?
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That’s a nice thought! Every season will come with different challenges.
Thank you for stopping by.💜
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The most tough and interesting pary is everyone has to find their own answers as what worked for someone else may not work for you and philosophically speaking, its meant to be confusing, derailing, tough, obstinate and above all unpredictable. When we observe in hindsight that’s what makes great memories after all. Awesomely written, prodding to think and reflect 👏👏
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Thank you so much Deepak for this wonderful comment.
You have raised an amazing point. Every person has their own struggle and results, and what works for one, might not work for the other. Its always on us how we want to lead our life.
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Thanks to you for stirring a discussion on this and writing a wonderful piece..
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You are always too kind 💜
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Well i spoke sorry wrote the truth..
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I dint get you
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I am sorry, I was replying to your comment of being Kind, I meant it wasn’t about being kind but speaking the truth. You explained the dilemma so well, worth appreciating and thought provoking!
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Thanks. Means a lot ❤️
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I believe we learn these things as we grow up, not just physically but mentally as well. The environment around us is the best teacher. Loved the questions you asked. We all struggle with these on most days. 😇
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Yeah some experiences comes with time. Thank you for going through the post.💜
Lets hope we soon find the answers.
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“Let us step into the night and pursue that flighty temptress, adventure.” – Albus. And to me this is life. Very nice write up 🙂
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Wow. That’s a beautiful quote.
Thank you Karthigeyan for sharing this.
HP is ❤️
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Yes it is. Despite having read it for several times, I always find something new every time I read it. Loads of life lessons for adults too. 🙂
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I soo agree with you. Harry Potter is beyond age group. Every read give you a new something.
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Lovely thoughts … life is all of that and more. such a gift as are your thoughts!
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Thank you so much Cindy for this kind comment.❤️
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You’re most welcome.
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Have a great weekend ahead.
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thanks and you too!!!!
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Oh yes, it’s tough indeed.
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Good to know we are on the same boat.💜
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Wonderful philosophical questions, yes heart contains emotions for a reason just like the mind standby it’s logic for its own purpose. Yes it’s important to attain an equilibrium between these two. But personally you know i got a few screws lose in my head hence I’m more of a person that uses his heart as his guiding force. Wonderful write up indeed made me think on a lot of levels.
We float like feathers in a cruel world
We float, we glide and sometimes we fall apart.
Yet amidst this chaos is a puzzled girl
Who poetically decorates the war between the mind and the heart…. 🙏👍
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Its takes courage to go by the force of heart. Kudos to you for that.
I loved this small piece of poem. How do you come up with such rhymes!! Its no fair.
Thank you for such a wonderful comment.
P.S. you have more than few loose screws.😂
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Super savage 🤯😂🤣 with that subtle ps note… such prime example of savageness 👏👌 jabra fan ho gaya of such crisp savageness 👍✌️
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Hahaha… what to say now.. too humble 🙈😂
The feelings are mutual. I am a fan of your rhyming.
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or is it about finding happiness in the intriguing dichotomy…
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Yeah. It could be anything and everything.
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Hi.I’ve nominated you for the sunshine blogger award please do have a check.
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Excellent post! I ask the same questions everyday. I believe we figure them out as we move along.
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Thank you Rishika.💜
Good to know we are on the same boat, lets hope we find the answers soon.
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I love this. Definitely think about this question a lot!
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Thanks.
Glad to know I am not alone. Lets hope we find the answers soon.
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I too agree with your friend about finding a balance….it’s not going to be easy but I think it’s worth it!
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Correct. Its difficult but not unachievable.
Thanks for stopping by.
Have a great weekend.
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Pleasure is mine 🙂
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Life is what we made it!!
Life is like book, it has end but no one knows until they meet it in person!!😊😁
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And every chapter of the book comes with its own lesson
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The funny thing is, I was literally thinking the same thing last night!
I like what your friend said, about balance. Yes, it’s tough, but it’s doable. And I think, in the end, it’s not necessarily being happy, but being content with what you have. Thing won’t be perfect. Things won’t always go your own way. But things will work out the way they’re meant to, we just have to accept it. And life is truly beautiful, if only you choose to see it that way. 🙂 ❤
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Thank you so much for this wonderful comment Wardah.💜
I got your point, we should take one day at a time and let life take its own course. May be it will turn out for the best.
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Yes!! You’re welcome ❤
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Life equals my insane thoughts and memories😅
Also, I noticed that most of the statements are contradictions of the past and future. So yeah there is always the present moment eventually becomes part of either of these times. Yipee! I found balance;)
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Hahaha.. happy you found the balance. 😄
Yeah its the present we should focus on, one day at a time.
Thank you for stopping by Rageshree💜
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It’s my pleasure💕
Have a nice day:)
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For me, finding balance is difficult. I tend to go to extremes with everything! Having balance, though, is healthy. I’m still working on it.
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Exactly, finding balance is so so difficult. All we can do is try.
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the eternal puzzle, well said.
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Thank you. Hope this puzzle solves soon.
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Often we are confused how to balance out things, which route to choose?
And I feel like life is all about choices this or that!
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Correct. Life is about choices.
Which way would be better and bring stability and peace. Just what to chose is the question.
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Incredibly beautiful post. 👏👏 Such a deceptive thing this Life is. Full of contradictions, and paradoxes. And everyone has his own. So probably no one definition could ever be created. Loved it. 🤜🤛👏🙌
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Exactly everyone has their own different challenges and choices.
You have put the right word. Life is Deceptive.
Thanks for stopping by 💛
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All my pleasure…take care..🤜🤛🙏
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Beautiful thank you for sharing your story ⚜🌼
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Enjoyed your take on the life long question. Life is what you make of it. Enjoy the ride!!
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Yeah, life is an experience in itself and meant to enjoyed.
Thank you for this wonderful comment.
Have a great week ahead.
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You too. Enjoy!
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Life.. …struggle ..survival of the fittest.
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Agree. Its a constant struggle.
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So beautifully written life for me indeed is a beautiful journey ❤️
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Life is indeed a journey and what path we follow depends on our choices.
Thanks for stopping by Yasin.
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Hi! Just wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Great Achiever महासिद्धी (Mahasiddhi) Blogger Award! My post is here: https://silentsilverytears.wordpress.com/2020/08/18/great-achiever-mahasiddhi-blogger-award/ Thank you for being an amazing blogger! 🤗❤
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Hey Wardah, Congratulations and thank you for the nomination. If you don’t mind can I mail you my answers as I am not much into writing award post.
Hope thats ok with you.
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Thank you!! And yes that’s totally fine, I completely understand. You can write them in the comments, or if you want to email, you can send them to silentandsilvery@gmail.com. Thank you for still answering, and wishing you all the best! 🙂💖
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Thank you so much for understanding and sharing your details. I will definitely revert you in some time. ❤️
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Sounds great! You’re welcome 😊
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Hey, Congratulations and thank you for the nomination. If you don’t mind can I mail you my answers as I am not much into writing award post.
Hope thats ok with you.
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Where is the balance??
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That’s what I am trying to find.
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Let me know when you find it.
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For sure.
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Taking it one day at a day
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Yeah, you are right. That’s the best way to live life.
Thank you for stopping by.
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You’re welcome 😊
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Life is nothing but a curved line. Full of ups, and full of downs. The one who can go through all these curves, will be the ultimate winner.
Very well written! 💖
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Agree. You defined life beautifully.
Thanks for taking out time and going through the post.
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I loved this post, certainly it is all about balancing everything and morever it is a adventurous joy ride wherein no one knows what is in future.
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Thanks Prashantt. You are right life is meant to be enjoyed.
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Welcome!😇
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Life is taking one day at a time! Feel it all – love, joy, hatred, envy!
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Hey.. thank you so much for this thoughtful comment.
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a question that’s perpetually floating in my mind. this is such a well written piece, i truly enjoyed this one! thank you for sharing💞
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Sure. Thanks for your lovely feedback.
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Life has ups and downs. Just stick to your plan😊
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Where is the plan. I have none.
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I just can’t plan your life, no one can. You need to know your strength and weaknesses. 😊
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It’s so nice and philosophical poetry, balancing the life is an art with an appropriate control on our human senses. 🙂
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Agree balance is an art which I believe only a few have mastered.
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Life is not about choosing or finding
We dont live life as much as life lives through us, within us, around us. It is all there is
It is all that is quiet and enduring and peaceful
Beyond all that we choose and all the we find
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Thats a very thoughtful comment. Thanks for stopping by.
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Life is indeed about balance! Hard to consistently apply.
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Exactly. Achieving that balance is tough.
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I feel life is everything that you said above…
Finding the balance or not, I don’t know…
I just know that we know a few things and we don’t know a few things and that is THE FUN IN LIFE:)
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Yeah not knowing things have its own charm.
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Thanks for sharing. I really enjoyed the write up.
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Thanks Nuella. I will definitely check this out.
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Life has its own ups and downs. Lovely thought 😊😇
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True. Agree with you.
Thanks.
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Life is a mystery for me, life just rolls to discover ourselves 😅
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True. Its predictably unpredictable.
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Life is but a dream🍂
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I agree 💛
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Just AMAZING, such a stunning post. I love the deep truths and raw emotion here, just incredible! Thank you for sharing 🤗🙏🏻
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Thank you so much Ace. Life and its purposes are always mysterious.
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You’re most welcome!! Yes indeed, such a deep and always evolving mystery.
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